(she's gonna hate this post)
here is anikó trying to pose like i do for photos:

one of my colleagues, Anikó, and i have become pretty good friends. maybe it's because we're single women, maybe it's because we're english teachers, or because we're so funny. i like to think it's because we're kindred spirits. either way, we spend some quality time together each week and i couldn't be more thankful for it, or for her.
when liz came here for christmas, we were invited to spend christmas day at anikó's house with her and her mom.
anikó's mom, marika

liz and anikó

marika took this picture, that would be her finger in the upper left

anikó and her pretty tree (they are customarily not as full as the trees we have in the US)

then for easter anikó invited me over again. not just anyone gets invited over to people's houses for holidays, do they? so she picked me up and took me to her house where we joined her mom, her sister, brother-in-law, and niece for a lovely easter lunch. the following day was her mom's birthday, so i even gave her some birthday kisses and wishes. after lunch i was happy to help clean up with marika (her mom). we tag-teamed the dishes and had them done in no time. (it's nice that the language barrier isn't a problem while during chores.) then anikó and i pumped up the tires in her bikes and went for a long bike ride through her village to a lake and back. it was a lovely spring day and i was happy to be out enjoying it. on the way home we stopped in at her sister's house and chatted with her for a bit. in true hungarian form she couldn't resist offering us food (though i was still stuffed from lunch, even after the bike ride). she also showed me her greenhouse and the billions of lovely flowers she and her husband grow. i was given a freshly picked bouquet of carnations and calla lillies. i asked anikó if her sister always gives her flowers, but she said no, in fact she doesn't, they're just for you!
about once a week anikó and i have coffee in the teachers' kitchen together. on tuesdays (not every tuesday, but most) we go to the YMCA-type place and swim laps together and steam ourselves in the sauna (which she enjoys much more than i do). we also take semi-regular shopping trips, gas runs, and she has driven me home more times than i can count. when i was homesick and really sad she postponed her plans for the evening to come have dinner and a talk with me. i was so touched.
the other day at a store we ran into our vice principal and his family. she introduced me to his wife as the english lecturer and her half sister. that made me smile for two reasons: one was because i could understand it, and the other because it's nice to know the feeling's mutual.